Bible Cross References
chastened
Psalm 66:10-12
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You have put us to the test, God; as silver is purified by fire, so you have tested us.
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You let us fall into a trap and placed heavy burdens on our backs.
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You let our enemies trample us; we went through fire and flood, but now you have brought us to a place of safety.
Psalm 94:12
LORD, how happy are those you instruct, the ones to whom you teach your law!
Psalm 94:13
You give them rest from days of trouble until a pit is dug to trap the wicked.
2 Samuel 12:10
Now, in every generation some of your descendants will die a violent death because you have disobeyed me and have taken Uriah's wife.
2 Samuel 13:1-39
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David's son Absalom had a beautiful unmarried sister named Tamar. Amnon, another of David's sons, fell in love with her.
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He was so much in love with her that he became sick, because it seemed impossible for him to have her; as a virgin, she was kept from meeting men.
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But he had a friend, a very shrewd man named Jonadab, the son of David's brother Shammah.
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Jonadab said to Amnon, "You are the king's son, yet day after day I see you looking sad. What's the matter?" "I'm in love with Tamar, the sister of my half brother Absalom," he answered.
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Jonadab said to him, "Pretend that you are sick and go to bed. When your father comes to see you, say to him, 'Please ask my sister Tamar to come and feed me. I want her to fix the food here where I can see her, and then serve it to me herself.' "
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So Amnon pretended that he was sick and went to bed. King David went to see him, and Amnon said to him, "Please let Tamar come and make a few cakes here where I can see her, and then serve them to me herself."
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So David sent word to Tamar in the palace: "Go to Amnon's house and fix him some food."
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She went there and found him in bed. She took some dough, prepared it, and made some cakes there where he could see her. Then she baked the cakes
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and emptied them out of the pan for him to eat, but he wouldn't. He said, "Send everyone away"---and they all left.
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Then he said to her, "Bring the cakes here to my bed and serve them to me yourself." She took the cakes and went over to him.
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As she offered them to him, he grabbed her and said, "Come to bed with me!"
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"No," she said. "Don't force me to do such a degrading thing! That's awful!
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How could I ever hold up my head in public again? And you---you would be completely disgraced in Israel. Please, speak to the king, and I'm sure that he will give me to you."
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But he would not listen to her; and since he was stronger than she was, he overpowered her and raped her.
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Then Amnon was filled with a deep hatred for her; he hated her now even more than he had loved her before. He said to her, "Get out!"
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"No," she answered. "To send me away like this is a greater crime than what you just did!" But Amnon would not listen to her;
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he called in his personal servant and said, "Get this woman out of my sight! Throw her out and lock the door!"
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The servant put her out and locked the door. Tamar was wearing a long robe with full sleeves, the usual clothing for an unmarried princess in those days.
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She sprinkled ashes on her head, tore her robe, and with her face buried in her hands went away crying.
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When her brother Absalom saw her, he asked, "Has Amnon molested you? Please, sister, don't let it upset you so much. He is your half brother, so don't tell anyone about it." So Tamar lived in Absalom's house, sad and lonely.
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When King David heard what had happened, he was furious.
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And Absalom hated Amnon so much for having raped his sister Tamar that he would no longer even speak to him.
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Two years later Absalom was having his sheep sheared at Baal Hazor, near the town of Ephraim, and he invited all the king's sons to be there.
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He went to King David and said, "Your Majesty, I am having my sheep sheared. Will you and your officials come and take part in the festivities?"
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"No, my son," the king answered. "It would be too much trouble for you if we all went." Absalom insisted, but the king would not give in, and he asked Absalom to leave.
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But Absalom said, "Well, then, will you at least let my brother Amnon come?" "Why should he?" the king asked.
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But Absalom kept on insisting until David finally let Amnon and all his other sons go with Absalom. Absalom prepared a banquet fit for a king
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and instructed his servants: "Notice when Amnon has had too much to drink, and then when I give the order, kill him. Don't be afraid. I will take the responsibility myself. Be brave and don't hesitate!"
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So the servants followed Absalom's instructions and killed Amnon. All the rest of David's sons mounted their mules and fled.
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While they were on their way home, David was told: "Absalom has killed all your sons---not one of them is left!"
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The king stood up, tore his clothes in sorrow, and threw himself to the ground. The servants who were there with him tore their clothes also.
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But Jonadab, the son of David's brother Shammah, said, "Your Majesty, they haven't killed all your sons. Only Amnon is dead. You could tell by looking at Absalom that he had made up his mind to do this from the time that Amnon raped his sister Tamar.
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So don't believe the news that all your sons are dead; only Amnon was killed."
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In the meantime Absalom had fled. Just then the soldier on sentry duty saw a large crowd coming down the hill on the road from Horonaim. He went to the king and reported what he had seen.
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Jonadab said to David, "Those are your sons coming, just as I said they would."
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As soon as he finished saying this, David's sons came in; they started crying, and David and his officials also cried bitterly.
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Absalom fled and went to the king of Geshur, Talmai son of Ammihud, and stayed there three years. David mourned a long time for his son Amnon;
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(SEE 13:37)
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but when he got over Amnon's death, he was filled with longing for his son Absalom.
2 Samuel 16:1-23
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When David had gone a little beyond the top of the hill, he was suddenly met by Ziba, the servant of Mephibosheth, who had with him a couple of donkeys loaded with two hundred loaves of bread, a hundred bunches of raisins, a hundred bunches of fresh fruit, and a leather bag full of wine.
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King David asked him, "What are you going to do with all that?" Ziba answered, "The donkeys are for Your Majesty's family to ride, the bread and the fruit are for the men to eat, and the wine is for them to drink when they get tired in the wilderness."
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"Where is Mephibosheth, the grandson of your master Saul?" the king asked him. "He is staying in Jerusalem," Ziba answered, "because he is convinced that the Israelites will now restore to him the kingdom of his grandfather Saul."
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The king said to Ziba, "Everything that belonged to Mephibosheth is yours." "I am your servant," Ziba replied. "May I always please Your Majesty!"
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When King David arrived at Bahurim, one of Saul's relatives, Shimei son of Gera, came out to meet him, cursing him as he came.
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Shimei started throwing stones at David and his officials, even though David was surrounded by his men and his bodyguards.
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Shimei cursed him and said, "Get out! Get out! Murderer! Criminal!
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You took Saul's kingdom, and now the LORD is punishing you for murdering so many of Saul's family. The LORD has given the kingdom to your son Absalom, and you are ruined, you murderer!"
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Abishai, whose mother was Zeruiah, said to the king, "Your Majesty, why do you let this dog curse you? Let me go over there and cut off his head!"
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"This is none of your business," the king said to Abishai and his brother Joab. "If he curses me because the LORD told him to, who has the right to ask why he does it?"
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And David said to Abishai and to all his officials, "My own son is trying to kill me; so why should you be surprised at this Benjaminite? The LORD told him to curse; so leave him alone and let him do it.
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Perhaps the LORD will notice my misery and give me some blessings to take the place of his curse."
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So David and his men continued along the road. Shimei kept up with them, walking on the hillside; he was cursing and throwing stones and dirt at them as he went.
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The king and all his men were worn out when they reached the Jordan, and there they rested.
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Absalom and all the Israelites with him entered Jerusalem, and Ahithophel was with them.
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When Hushai, David's trusted friend, met Absalom, he shouted, "Long live the king! Long live the king!"
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"What has happened to your loyalty to your friend David?" Absalom asked him. "Why didn't you go with him?"
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Hushai answered, "How could I? I am for the one chosen by the LORD, by these people, and by all the Israelites. I will stay with you.
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After all, whom should I serve, if not my master's son? As I served your father, so now I will serve you."
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Then Absalom turned to Ahithophel and said, "Now that we are here, what do you advise us to do?"
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Ahithophel answered, "Go and have intercourse with your father's concubines whom he left behind to take care of the palace. Then everyone in Israel will know that your father regards you as his enemy, and your followers will be greatly encouraged."
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So they set up a tent for Absalom on the palace roof, and in the sight of everyone Absalom went in and had intercourse with his father's concubines.
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Any advice that Ahithophel gave in those days was accepted as though it were the very word of God; both David and Absalom followed it.
Job 5:17
Happy is the person whom God corrects! Do not resent it when he rebukes you.
Job 5:18
God bandages the wounds he makes; his hand hurts you, and his hand heals.
Job 33:16-30
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He makes them listen to what he says, and they are frightened at his warnings.
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God speaks to make them stop their sinning and to save them from becoming proud.
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He will not let them be destroyed; he saves them from death itself.
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God corrects us by sending sickness and filling our bodies with pain.
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Those who are sick lose their appetites, and even the finest food looks revolting.
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Their bodies waste away to nothing; you can see all their bones;
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they are about to go to the world of the dead.
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Perhaps an angel may come to their aid--- one of God's thousands of angels, who remind us of our duty.
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In mercy the angel will say, "Release them! They are not to go down to the world of the dead. Here is the ransom to set them free."
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Their bodies will grow young and strong again;
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when they pray, God will answer; they will worship God with joy; God will set things right for them again.
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Each one will say in public, "I have sinned. I have not done right, but God spared me.
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He kept me from going to the world of the dead, and I am still alive."
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God does all this again and again;
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each one saves a person's life, and gives him the joy of living.
Proverbs 3:11
My child, when the LORD corrects you, pay close attention and take it as a warning.
Proverbs 3:12
The LORD corrects those he loves, as parents correct a child of whom they are proud.
Jonah 2:6
I went down to the very roots of the mountains, into the land whose gates lock shut forever. But you, O LORD my God, brought me back from the depths alive.
1 Corinthians 11:32
But we are judged and punished by the Lord, so that we shall not be condemned together with the world.
2 Corinthians 1:9-11
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We felt that the death sentence had been passed on us. But this happened so that we should rely, not on ourselves, but only on God, who raises the dead.
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From such terrible dangers of death he saved us, and will save us; and we have placed our hope in him that he will save us again,
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as you help us by means of your prayers for us. So it will be that the many prayers for us will be answered, and God will bless us; and many will raise their voices to him in thanksgiving for us.
2 Corinthians 6:9
as unknown, yet we are known by all; as though we were dead, but, as you see, we live on. Although punished, we are not killed;
Hebrews 12:10
Our human fathers punished us for a short time, as it seemed right to them; but God does it for our own good, so that we may share his holiness.
Hebrews 12:11
When we are punished, it seems to us at the time something to make us sad, not glad. Later, however, those who have been disciplined by such punishment reap the peaceful reward of a righteous life.