Bible Cross References
chastened
Psalm 66:10-12
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For You have tried us, O God; You have refined us, as silver is refined.
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You have brought us into the net; You have laid affliction upon our loins.
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You have allowed men to ride over our heads; we have gone through fire and through water, but You have brought us out into plenty.
Psalm 94:12
Blessed is the man whom You correct, O YAH, and teach out of Your Law,
Psalm 94:13
that You may give him rest from the evil days, until the pit is dug for the wicked.
2 Samuel 12:10
Now therefore, the sword shall never depart from your house, because you have despised Me, and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your wife.
2 Samuel 13:1-39
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After this Absalom the son of David had a beautiful sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.
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Amnon was so distressed over his sister Tamar that he became sick; for she was a virgin; and it was difficult in Amnon's eyes to do anything to her.
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But Amnon had a friend whose name was Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David's brother. Now Jonadab was a very shrewd man.
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And he said to him, Why are you, the king's son, so low morning after morning? Will you not tell me? Amnon said to him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom's sister.
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So Jonadab said to him, Lie down on your bed and make yourself sick. And when your father comes to see you, say to him, Please let my sister Tamar come and give me food, and prepare the food before my eyes, that I may see it and eat it from her hand.
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So Amnon lay down and made himself sick; and when the king came to see him, Amnon said to the king, Please let Tamar my sister come and make a couple of cakes for me before my eyes, that I may eat from her hand.
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And David sent to the house for Tamar, saying, Now go to your brother Amnon's house, and prepare food for him.
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So Tamar went to her brother Amnon's house; and he was lying down. Then she took flour and kneaded it, made cakes before his eyes, and baked the cakes.
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And she took the pan and poured them out before him, but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, Have everyone go out from me. And they all went out from him.
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And Amnon said to Tamar, Bring the food into the inner room, that I may eat from your hand. And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them to Amnon her brother in the inner room.
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And when she had brought them to him to eat, he took hold of her and said to her, Come, lie with me, my sister.
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And she answered him, No, my brother, do not force me, for no such thing should be done in Israel. Do not do this disgraceful thing!
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And I, where could I take my shame? And as for you, you would be like one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, please speak to the king; for he will not withhold me from you.
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However, he would not heed her voice; and being stronger than she, he forced her and lay with her.
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Then Amnon hated her exceedingly, so that the hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her. And Amnon said to her, Arise and go!
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And she said to him, For what reason? This evil to send me away is worse than the other that you have done to me. But he would not listen to her.
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Then he summoned his servant who attended him, and said, Send this woman out away from me, and bolt the door behind her.
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And she had on a tunic of many colors, for the king's virgin daughters wore such robes. And his servant brought her outside and bolted the door behind her.
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And Tamar put ashes on her head, and tore her tunic of many colors that was on her, and laid her hand on her head and went away, crying out as she went.
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And Absalom her brother said to her, Has Amnon your brother been with you? But now keep silent, my sister. He is your brother; do not take this thing to heart. So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom's house.
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But when King David heard of all these things, he was extremely furious.
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And Absalom spoke to his brother Amnon neither good nor bad. For Absalom hated Amnon, because he had humbled his sister Tamar.
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And it came to pass, after two full years, that Absalom had sheepshearers in Baal Hazor, which is near Ephraim; and Absalom invited all the king's sons.
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And Absalom came to the king and said, Behold, your servant has sheepshearers; please, let the king and his servants go with your servant.
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But the king said to Absalom, No, my son, let us not all go now, lest we be a burden to you. And he pressed him, but he would not go, but blessed him.
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Then Absalom said, If not, please let my brother Amnon go with us. And the king said to him, Why should he go with you?
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But Absalom pressed him; so he let Amnon and all the king's sons go with him.
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Now Absalom had commanded his servants, saying, Watch now, when Amnon's heart is merry with wine, and when I say to you, Strike Amnon! then kill him. Do not be afraid. Have I not commanded you? Be courageous and valiant.
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And the servants of Absalom did to Amnon as Absalom had commanded. And all the king's sons arose, and each one got on his mule and fled.
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And it came to pass, while they were on the way, that news came to David, saying, Absalom has killed all the king's sons, and not one of them is left!
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So the king arose and tore his garments and lay on the ground, and all his servants stood by with their clothes torn.
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Then Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David's brother, answered and said, Let not my lord suppose they have killed all the young men, the king's sons, for only Amnon has died. For at the mouth of Absalom this has been determined since the day that he humbled his sister Tamar.
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Now therefore, let not my lord the king take this word to heart, to think that all the king's sons have died; for only Amnon has died.
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Then Absalom fled. And the young man who was keeping watch lifted up his eyes and looked, and behold, many people were coming from the way along the hillside behind him.
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And Jonadab said to the king, Look! The king's sons have come; according to your servant's word, so it is.
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So it was, as soon as he had finished speaking, that behold the king's sons came, and they lifted up their voice and wept. Also the king and all his servants wept with a very great weeping.
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But Absalom had fled and went to Talmai the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur. And David mourned for his son every day.
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So Absalom had fled, and went to Geshur, and was there three years.
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And King David longed to go to Absalom. For he had been comforted concerning Amnon, because he had died.
2 Samuel 16:1-23
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And when David was a little past the top of the mountain, behold Ziba the servant of Mephibosheth met him with a couple of saddled donkeys, and on them two hundred loaves of bread, one hundred clusters of raisins, one hundred summer fruits, and a skin of wine.
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And the king said to Ziba, What do you mean by these? And Ziba said, The donkeys are for the king's household to ride on, the bread and summer fruit for the young men to eat, and the wine for those who are faint in the wilderness to drink.
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And the king said, And where is your master's son? And Ziba said to the king, Behold, he is staying in Jerusalem, for he has said, Today the house of Israel will restore the kingdom of my father to me.
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Then the king said to Ziba, Behold, all that belongs to Mephibosheth is yours. And Ziba said, I prostrate before you, that I may find favor in your eyes, my lord, O king!
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And when King David came to Bahurim, there was a man from the family of the house of Saul, whose name was Shimei the son of Gera, coming from there. He came out, cursing continuously as he came.
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And he pelted David and all the servants of King David with stones. And all the people and all the mighty men were on his right hand and on his left.
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Also Shimei said thus when he cursed: Get out! Get out, you man of blood, you worthless man!
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Jehovah has returned upon you all the blood of the house of Saul, in whose place you have reigned; and Jehovah has delivered the kingdom into the hand of Absalom your son. So now you are caught in your own evil, because you are a man of blood!
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Then Abishai the son of Zeruiah said to the king, Why should this dead dog curse my lord the king? Please, let me go over and take off his head!
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But the king said, What have I to do with you, you sons of Zeruiah? So let him curse, because Jehovah has said to him, Curse David. Who then shall say, Why have you done so?
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And David said to Abishai and all his servants, See how my son who came from my own body seeks my life; so, why not this Benjamite? Let him alone, and let him curse; for thus Jehovah has commanded him.
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It may be that Jehovah will look on my affliction, and that Jehovah will repay me with good for his cursing this day.
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And as David and his men went along the way, Shimei went along the hillside across from him and cursed as he went, pelted him with stones and kicked up dust.
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And the king and all the people with him became weary; so they refreshed themselves there.
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Meanwhile Absalom and all the people, the men of Israel, had come to Jerusalem; and Ahithophel with him.
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And so it was, when Hushai the Archite, David's friend, came to Absalom, that Hushai said to Absalom, Long live the king! Long live the king!
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And Absalom said to Hushai, Is this your loyalty to your friend? Why have you not gone with your friend?
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And Hushai said to Absalom, No, but whom Jehovah and this people and all the men of Israel have chosen, his I shall be, and with him I shall remain.
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Furthermore, whom should I serve? Should I not serve before his son? As I have served before your father, so shall I be before your face.
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And Absalom said to Ahithophel, Give counsel as to what we shall do.
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And Ahithophel said to Absalom, Go in to your father's concubines, whom he has left to keep the house; and all Israel will hear that you have become odious to your father. Then the hands of all who are with you will be strong.
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So they spread out a tent for Absalom on the housetop, and Absalom went in to his father's concubines before the eyes of all Israel.
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Now the counsel of Ahithophel, which he gave in those days, was as if one had inquired at the Word of God. So was all the counsel of Ahithophel both with David and with Absalom.
Job 5:17
Behold, blessed is the man whom God corrects; therefore do not despise the chastening of the Almighty.
Job 5:18
For He bruises, but He binds up; He shatters, but His hands heal.
Job 33:16-30
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then He opens the ears of men, and seals their instruction.
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In order to turn man from his deed, and conceal pride from man,
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He keeps back his soul from the Pit, and his life from perishing by the sword.
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Man is also chastened with pain on his bed, and with perpetual strife in his bones,
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so that his life loathes bread, and his soul desirable food.
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His flesh wastes away from sight, and his bones which once were not seen are laid bare.
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Yea, his soul draws near the Pit, and his life to the executioners.
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If there is a messenger for him, a mediator, one among a thousand, to declare for man his uprightness,
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then let Him be gracious to him and say, Deliver him from going down to the Pit; I have found a ransom.
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His flesh shall be fresh like a youth's, he shall return to the days of his vigor.
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He shall pray unto God, and He will delight in him; he shall see His face with joy, for He restores to man His righteousness.
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Then he observes men and says, I have sinned, and perverted what was right; and it has not been equaled to me.
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He has redeemed my soul from passing over to the Pit, and my life shall see the light.
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Lo, the Mighty God works all these things twice or three times with a man,
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to bring back his soul from the Pit, that he may be enlightened with the Light of Life.
Proverbs 3:11
My son, do not reject the chastening of Jehovah, and do not loathe His correction;
Proverbs 3:12
for whom Jehovah loves He corrects, even as a father corrects the son with whom he is pleased.
Jonah 2:6
I went down to the bases of the mountains; the earth with her bars was about me forever. Yet You have brought up my life from the pit, O Jehovah my God.
1 Corinthians 11:32
But when we are judged, we are chastened by the Lord, that we may not be condemned with the world.
2 Corinthians 1:9-11
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Yes, we had the sentence of death in ourselves, that we should not trust in ourselves but in God who raises the dead,
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who delivered us from so great a death, and does deliver us, in whom we hope that He will still deliver us,
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you also helping together in prayer for us, that thanks may be given through many persons on our behalf for the gracious gift granted to us by many.
2 Corinthians 6:9
as unknown, and yet well known; as dying, and behold we live; as chastened, and yet not put to death;
Hebrews 12:10
For they indeed for a few days disciplined us as seemed best to them, but He for our profit, that we may be partakers of His holiness.
Hebrews 12:11
Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been exercised by it.