And David said to Joab and to all the people who were with him, Tear your clothes, gird yourselves with sackcloth, and mourn for Abner. And King David walked behind the coffin.

So the king arose and tore his garments and lay on the ground, and all his servants stood by with their clothes torn.

And Reuben returned to the pit, and behold, Joseph was not in the pit; and he tore his clothes.

And Jacob tore his clothes, put sackcloth on his loins, and mourned for his son many days.

But when the apostles Barnabas and Paul heard this, they tore their clothes and rushed in among the multitude, crying out

Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.