Bible Cross References
chastened
Psalm 66:10-12
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For You, O God, have proved us; You have tried us with fire as silver is tried.
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You have brought us into the snare; You have laid afflictions on our back.
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You have caused men to ride over our heads; we went through the fire and water; but You brought us out into [a place of] refreshment.
Psalm 94:12
Blessed is the man whom You shall chasten, O Lord, and shall teach him out of Your law;
Psalm 94:13
to give him rest from evil days, until the pit is dug for the wicked.
2 Samuel 12:10
Now therefore the sword shall never depart from your house, because you have despised Me, and you have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite, to be your wife.
2 Samuel 13:1-39
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And it happened after this that Absalom the son of David had a very beautiful sister, and her name [was] Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.
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And Amnon was distressed even to sickness, because of Tamar his sister; for she was a virgin, and it seemed very difficult for Amnon to do anything to her.
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Now Amnon had a friend, and his name [was] Jonadab, the son of Shimeah the brother of David: and Jonadab [was] a very cunning man.
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And he said to him, What ails you, that you are weak like this? O son of the king, morning by morning? Will you not tell me? And Amnon said, I love Tamar the sister of my brother Absalom.
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And Jonadab said to him, Lie upon your bed, and make yourself sick, and your father shall come in to see you; and you shall say to him, Let Tamar my sister come, and feed me with morsels, and let her prepare food before my eyes, that I may see and eat at her hands.
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So Ammon laid down and made himself sick; and the king came in to see him. And Amnon said to the king, Let my sister Tamar come to me, and make a couple of cakes in my sight, and I will eat them at her hand.
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And David sent to Tamar to the house, saying, Go now to your brother's house, and prepare food for him.
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And Tamar went to the house of her brother Amnon, and he [was] lying down: and she took the dough and kneaded it, and made cakes in his sight, and baked the cakes.
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And she took the frying pan and poured them out before him, but he would not eat. And Amnon said, Send out every man from about me. And they removed every man from about him.
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And Amnon said to Tamar, Bring in the food into the closet, and I will eat of your hand. And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them to her brother Amnon into the chamber.
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And she brought [them] to him to eat, and he caught hold of her, and said to her, Come, lie with me, my sister.
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And she said to him, No, my brother, do not humble me, for it ought not to be so done in Israel; do not do this disgraceful thing!
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And I, where shall I remove my reproach? And you shall be as one of the fools in Israel. And now, speak to the king, for surely he will not keep me from you.
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But Amnon would not hearken to her voice; and he prevailed against her, and humbled her, and lay with her.
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Then Amnon hated her with very great hatred; for the hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her, for the last wickedness was greater than the first. And Amnon said to her, Get up, and get out!
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And Tamar spoke to him concerning this great mischief, [saying,] this is greater than the other that you did to me, to send me away. But Amnon would not hearken to her voice.
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And he called his servant who had charge of the house, and said to him, Put this [woman] out from me, and shut the door behind her.
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And she had on herself a multi-colored robe, for so were the king's daughters that were virgins attired in their apparel. And his servant led her forth, and shut the door behind her.
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And Tamar took ashes, and put them on her head. And she tore the robe that was on her, and she laid her hands on her head, and went crying continually.
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And Absalom her brother said to her, Has your brother Amnon been with you? Now then, my sister, be silent, for he is your brother: be not careful to mention this matter. So Tamar dwelt as a widow in the house of her brother Absalom.
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And King David heard of all these things, and was very angry; but he did not grieve the spirit of his son Amnon, because he loved him, for he was his firstborn.
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And Absalom spoke not to Amnon, [neither] good or bad, because Absalom hated Amnon, on account of his humbling of his sister Tamar.
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And it came to pass at the end of two whole years, that they were shearing [sheep] for Absalom in Baal Hazor, near Ephraim. And Absalom invited all the king's sons.
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And Absalom came to the king, and said, Behold, your servant has a sheep-shearing; let now the king and his servants go with your servant.
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And the king said to Absalom, No, my son, let us not all go, and let us not be burdensome to you. And he pressed him; but he would not go, but blessed him.
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And Absalom said to him, And if not, let my brother Amnon go with us. And the king said to him, Why should he go with you?
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And Absalom pressed him, and he sent with him Amnon and all the king's sons; and Absalom made a banquet like the banquet of the king.
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And Absalom commanded his servants, saying, Take notice when the heart of Amnon shall be merry with wine, and I shall say to you, Smite Amnon, and kill him: fear not; for is it not I that command you? Be courageous, and be valiant.
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And the servants of Absalom did to Amnon as Absalom commanded them. And all the sons of the king rose up, and they mounted every man his mule, and fled.
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And it came to pass, when they were in the way, that a report came to David, saying, Absalom has slain all the king's sons, and there is not one of them left.
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Then the king arose, and tore his clothes, and lay upon the ground. And all his servants that were standing round him tore their clothes.
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And Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David's brother, answered and said, Let not my Lord the king say that he has slain all the young men the sons of the king, for Amnon alone is dead; for he was appointed [to death] by the mouth of Absalom from the day that he humbled his sister Tamar.
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And now let not my lord the king take the matter to heart, saying, All the king's sons are dead: for Amnon alone is dead.
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And Absalom escaped. And the watchman lifted up his eyes and looked; and behold, many people went in the way behind him from the side of the mountain in the descent. And the watchman came and told the king, and said, I have seen men by the way of Horonaim, by the side of the mountain.
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And Jonadab said to the king, Behold, the king' sons are present: according to the word of your servant, so has it happened.
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And it came to pass when he had finished speaking, that behold, the king's sons came, and lifted up their voices and wept; and the king also and all his servants wept with a very great weeping.
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But Absalom fled, and went to Talmai son of Ammihud the king of Geshur, to the land of Hamaachad: and King David mourned for his son continually.
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So Absalom fled, and departed to Geshur, and was there three years.
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And King David ceased to go out after Absalom, for he was comforted concerning Amnon, regarding his death.
2 Samuel 16:1-23
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And David passed on a little way from Ros; and behold, Ziba the servant of Memphibosheth [came] to meet him; and he had a couple of donkeys saddled, and upon them two hundred loaves, and a hundred [cakes of] raisins, and a hundred [cakes of] dates, and a bottle of wine.
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And the king said to Ziba, What do you mean to do with these? And Ziba said, The donkeys [are] for the household of the king to sit on, and the loaves and the dates [are] for the young men to eat, and the wine [is] for them that are faint in the wilderness to drink.
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And the king said, And where [is] the son of your master? And Ziba said to the king, Behold, he remains in Jerusalem; for he said, Today shall the house of Israel restore to me the kingdom of my father.
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And the king said to Ziba, Behold, all Memphibosheth's property [is] yours. And Ziba bowed down and said, My lord, O king, let me find grace in your eyes.
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And King David came to Bahurim; and behold, there came out from there a man of the family of the house of Saul, and his name [was] Shimei, the son of Gera. He came forth and cursed as he went,
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and cast stones at David, and at all the servants of King David. And all the people and all the mighty men were on the right and left hand of the king.
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And thus Shimei said when he cursed him, Go out, go out, you bloody man, and man of sin.
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The Lord has returned upon you all the blood of the house of Saul, because you have reigned in his place; and the Lord has given the kingdom into the hand of Absalom your son: and behold, you [are taken] in your mischief, because you [are] a bloody man.
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Then Abishai the son of Zeruiah said to the king, Why does this dead dog curse my lord the king? Let me go over now and take off his head!
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And the king said, What have I to do with you, you sons of Zeruiah? Let him alone, and so let him curse, for the Lord has told him to curse David: and who shall say, Why have you done thus?
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And David said to Abishai and to all his servants, Behold, my son who came forth out of my bowels seeks my life; still more now may the son of Benjamin: let him curse, because the Lord has told him.
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If by any means the Lord may look upon my affliction, thus shall He return me good for his cursing this day.
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And David and all the men with him went along the road: and Shimei went by the side of the hill next to him, cursing as he went, and casting stones at him, and sprinkling him with dirt.
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And the king, and all the people with him, came away and refreshed themselves there.
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And Absalom and all the men of Israel went into Jerusalem, and Ahithophel with him.
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And it came to pass when Hushai the chief friend of David came to Absalom, that Hushai said to Absalom, Long live the king!
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And Absalom said to Hushai, [Is] this your kindness to your friend? Why did you not go forth with your friend?
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And Hushai said to Absalom, No, but following whom the Lord, and this people, and all Israel have chosen- his will I be, and with him I will dwell.
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And again, whom shall I serve? Should I not [serve] in the presence of his son? As I served in the sight of your father, so will I be in your presence.
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And Absalom said to Ahithophel, Deliberate among yourselves concerning what we should do.
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And Ahithophel said to Absalom, Go in to your father's concubines, whom he left to keep his house; and all Israel shall hear that you have dishonored your father; and the hands of all that are with you shall be strengthened.
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And they pitched a tent for Absalom on the roof, and Absalom went in to his father's concubines in the sight of all Israel.
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And the counsel of Ahithophel, which he counseled in former days, [was] as if one should inquire of the word of God: so [was] all the counsel of Ahithophel both to David and also to Absalom.
Job 5:17
But blessed is the man whom the Lord has reproved; and reject not the chastening of the Almighty.
Job 5:18
for He causes a man to be in pain, and restores him again: He smites, and His hands heal.
Job 33:16-30
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then He opens the understanding of men: He scares them with such fearful visions;
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to turn a man from unrighteousness, and He delivers his body from a fall.
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He spares also his soul from death, and does not allow him to fall in war.
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And again, He chastens him with sickness on his bed, and the multitude of his bones are pained.
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And he shall not be able to take any food, though his soul shall desire meat;
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until his flesh shall be consumed, and he shall show his bones bare.
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His soul also draws near to death, and his life is in Hades.
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Though there should be a thousand messengers of death, not one of them shall wound him: if he should purpose in his heart to turn to the Lord, and declare to man his fault, and show his folly;
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He will support him, that he should not perish, and will restore his body as [fresh] plaster upon a wall; and He will fill his bones with marrow.
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And He will make his flesh tender as that of a babe, and He will restore him among men in his full strength.
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And he shall pray to the Lord, and his prayer shall be accepted by Him; he shall enter with a cheerful countenance, with a full expression [of] [praise]: for He will render to men their due.
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Even then a man shall blame himself, saying, What kind of things have I done? And He has not punished me according to the full amount of my sins.
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Deliver my soul, that it may not go to destruction, and my life shall see the light.
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Behold, all these things, the Mighty One works in a threefold manner with a man.
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And He has delivered my soul from death, that my life may praise Him in the light.
Proverbs 3:11
[My] son, do not despise the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when you are rebuked by Him:
Proverbs 3:12
for whom the Lord loves, He rebukes, and scourges every son whom He receives.
Jonah 2:6
[ 2:7] to the clefts of the mountains; I went down into the earth, whose bars are the everlasting barriers: yet, O Lord my God, let my ruined life be restored.
1 Corinthians 11:32
But when we are judged, we are disciplined by the Lord, in order that we may not be condemned with the world.
2 Corinthians 1:9-11
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Yes, we have had the sentence of death in ourselves, that we should not trust in ourselves but in God who raises the dead,
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who delivered us from so great a death, and is delivering [us]; in whom we trust that He will still deliver [us],
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you also laboring together for us in prayer, that thanks may be given by many persons on your behalf for the gift [given] to us through many.
2 Corinthians 6:9
as being unknown, and yet well known; as dying, and behold, we live; as being disciplined, and not being put to death;
Hebrews 12:10
For they indeed for a few days were disciplining us, as seemed best to them, but He for our profit, in order to partake of His holiness.
Hebrews 12:11
Now no discipline seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, later it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those having been trained by it.