Someone will say, "Paul's letters are severe and strong, but when he is with us in person, he is weak, and his words are nothing!"

So you should not pass judgment on anyone before the right time comes. Final judgment must wait until the Lord comes; he will bring to light the dark secrets and expose the hidden purposes of people's minds. And then all will receive from God the praise they deserve.

If the Lord is willing, however, I will come to you soon, and then I will find out for myself the power which these proud people have, and not just what they say.

Which do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a whip, or in a spirit of love and gentleness?