Uriah answered, "The men of Israel and Judah are away in battle, and the Covenant Box is with them; my commander Joab and his officers are camping out in the open. How could I go home, eat and drink, and sleep with my wife? By all that's sacred, I swear that I could never do such a thing!"

love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs;

And look out for one another's interests, not just for your own.